Once in a while it is okay if you do things that make your man happy.
Most men are often pretty predictable in bed and thus they don’t really
need to ask for anything. However, in case you were wondering as to
what does a man actually need and want in bed, then this is the right
place to know. We have listed down seven things that we think men need
in bed and these things will turn him on!
1. Men want you take the initiative sometimes
Men are more than happy to make the first move, but there are times when
they really want to see you take an initiative. This is because men
love to see their woman eager to have sex. This also gives them a sense
of confidence. Also when men talk about you taking the initiative, it
also means that they would love it if you be the one coming up with new
sex positions to try. Do not hesitate in trying out new positions with
your man because you now know that he loves it. It doesn’t matter if
the experiment fails or succeeds; the fact that you took the initiative
is sure to make your man happy and satisfied.
2. They love it when you talk dirty
Now some women take this literally and go on and on about the smallest
thing in sex. That is not what men like. Men like it when you place few
dirty and seductive words in the middle of sex. You will be surprised to
see how your man gets turned on. A simple word, ‘harder’ is also more
than enough. It will work wonders. Just ensure that when you talk dirty
you do not go all technical on him. ‘It feels so good’, ‘ I am so
wet’, ‘Baby , keep going’ are some talks that will do wonders.
3. They love it when women take control in bed
Yes, a man does love to take control in bed but ever thought what will
happen if you take the lead? Whatever happens, it will only make your
man a lot happier and turned on. There is nothing hotter than a woman
who dominates the bed and initiates every sex move. It doesn’t mean you
go all wild and kinky on him with whips and leather belts. All you
need to do is push him hard on the bed and pin his arms while you are on
the top. This is enough for a man to lose control. This can be made
steamier by just some dirty talks.
4. And they go absolutely nuts when you surprise them in bed
Don’t be too predictable when it comes to sex. Men love surprise just
as much as you do, when it comes to sex. Like surprise him with an
early morning blow job or unexpectedly pin him to the love and start
making out. These are the kind of surprises that we are talking about.
Also you can bring in new sex positions and do stuff that he thought you
dislike. You can also go the extra mile and buy some really sexy
lingerie and treat him to a surprise sexy dance in those. Surprise him
often and just see how he starts craving for you more than ever.
5. Be ready for anything that he asks for
This is one thing that men really want and love in bed. They just
love it when their lady love agrees to every sex move that the man
makes. Every man wants a woman is open to trying out new things in bed
and not the one who is reluctant. And if you let him do what he wants,
he will surely return you the favor.
6. Men do love foreplay
Forget everything you have ever heard or read online about men not
liking foreplay. Not every man directly wants to jump at penetration.
There are several men who love foreplay and they want it just as much
as women do. Men love the slow and sexy build up and thus if you have
lived under this misconception, it is time to change. Give him enough
foreplay the next time.
7. And men also love watching you during sex
Any position that lets your man get a view of you getting aroused is
what a man actually needs it. Men really love visual stimulation and
every time they get it, they are the most satisfied. A cowgirl sex
position or even the missionary sex position where he can see you and
watch your sexy expressions is arousing for men. It will get him all
worked up and your sex sessions will be a lot steamier than the usual.
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